Simple Guidelines for Youth Soccer Parents

In negotiating the world of youth soccer, it is helpful to the players, the coach and the parents or guardians to understand what is expected of them. Some simple guidelines for parents/guardians helps establish the rules.  Key to  success is to remember that kids play soccer to have fun and to enjoy themselves.  Keep big rules for big kids and the pros.  For the younger players keep it simple so they can have fun.

 
Understand the coach and team philosophy. If you don't know the goals of the team (for example, player development versus competition), ask them to be spelled out at the meeting.
Send your children ready to play. They should be properly fed and clothed, and they should arrive on time.
Support the team, but do not instruct the players. It confuses your child and others, and undermines the efforts of the coach.
Avoid confusion when cheering. Do not say anything that is a command, such as "Pass it," "Shoot," or "Boot the ball."
Use positive encouragement instead. This would include such comments as "Way to go," "Nice effort," or "Stay with it."
Refrain from speaking to officials, unless it is to say thank you after the game. If you have questions or concerns with the referees, relay the information to the parent manager, who will take it to the coach.
   
Speak to the coach at the proper time. If you have concerns, use the telephone. If it is about a game, let the dust settle for a couple of days first.

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Report to the coach all injuries, special medical conditions (such as asthma) or extenuating circumstances (such as lack of sleep or family crisis) that may affect the player

Remember, youth soccer is "the game for all kids!"  Support your child and all the other children on the field....praise success, ignore failure.  The children are learning and having fun.  They are pros.
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soccerKatie Roper's daughter Ellen likes to play lots of sports--soccer, basketball, softball and swimming. But even at Ellen's tender age of nine, that's getting hard to do.

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Beat the Heat and Enjoy Soccer Too! - Watch the Best Soccer Movies  There are camps and more this summer, we talked about them last month but some days it's just too hot to go out side.  Why not check out some of the great movies about soccer and spend a cool afternoon inside watch and leaning more by watching so of the top moves on the sport.  May are available at you local video store and often at a bargain price.  They can help your play learn more about the game and keep them out of the hottest summer sun.  To see a list of the top soccer moves, click here.
 
FIFA 08 Keep Your Cool - Let Your Player Play Soccer on Your Game Machine  Another way to beat the heat this summer to play the game on your computer or game machine.  Games are available online for free and for purchase and many can be rented from your local video rental store or checked out from your local public library.  Many games help young players learn how to play the game while providing hours of fun away from the heat. Amazon.com lists almost 300 games available for purchase.  We do not recommend or endorse Amazon but it's a great place to see what on the market.  To see what they have available, click here.

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